Are you tired and a bit overwhelmed mom?

Hello my dear Secretly Crying Mama!

Do you know you can stop playing so put together on the outside and start truly enjoying motherhood?

Alicja @ - a blog for every tired mom, teaching how to redefine her mindset to live full and happy life

Thank you for being here!

Please look around this site and feel at home. Take a break from your chores, I’d love to help you gain
a new perspective on your busy everyday life!

You CAN stop the mom guilt, stop the overthinking and mental chaos (even if you’re used to hiding your needs, in order to keep your family happy) and together we can redefine your mindset so you can purposefully live your life! ……– Alicja


Most Recent Posts


I think something is wrong with me

"I am a mom. I've always wanted to be a mom. I feel I am a terrible mom. What is...
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How to Avoid Burnout When Working from Home?

I assume that if you're reading this, you are a mom and you already have your hands full 24/7. When...
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How to stay patient when all you want to do is yell at your child?

It is not easy to always stay calm as a parent. No matter if it's temper tantrum or strong-willed child, sometimes you just don't know how to be patient anymore.
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Shift Your Mindset from Surviving to Thriving!

Before I'll dive into some really simple and actionable tips on how to go from surviving to thriving, from I-have-no-life...
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So you worry that your child is acting strange?

  Being a worried mom is nothing unusual. When you think your child is acting a little strange, it's immediate...
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How to Add Joy to Your Life and Why it’s Worth Your Time?

  Only you are responsible for your happiness. There. I said it. If you want to add joy to your...
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Inspiring mompreneur-changing the world one bow at a time

Maybe it’s the mood of the day speaking (since I am writing this on Mother’s Day) but I want to...
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Do you need a magic spell to make self-care intentional?

Short answer: No, you don't. Self-care for moms is not a new subject in any way.  You need no magic...
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What to do when you don’t know what to do?

This question could have many different levels. I decided to pick three problems I’ve heard about the most often and...
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Do you know how to redefine and improve your mindset?

In almost every post of mine, you can read something about redefining your thoughts or redefining mommy mindset. Now it’s...
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Most Popular Posts


This is why your kids are not listening to you!

January 31, 2018 / 16 Comments
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Power Struggle – Why Kids Do Not Listen?

January 31, 2018 / 4 Comments

Time management – Mommy Style – PART 1

September 29, 2017 / 4 Comments

A Day (Almost) Off

August 31, 2017 / 2 Comments

Your child wants your attention right now.

February 8, 2018 / 8 Comments

New Year Anxiety – what to do about it?!

December 18, 2017 / 6 Comments

Motivation struggles? Need a kick in the butt?

September 8, 2017 / 6 Comments

Balance in Mom’s Life – is that a joke?

November 14, 2017 / 10 Comments

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It’s all about your mindset!


The whole concept of redefining is described in the post titled Just Redefine. Shocking, right? Still, because this blog would not exist without coffee, as a tribute, I’d like to show you what it is about using this divine beverage as an example. Here is a picture illustrating the basic and well-known philosophy of mindset.

it's all about your mindset so just redefine empty into full

I know not all mothers run on caffeine. (I don’t say I get that, but I am aware of a fact.) But I also know most of the moms need some help with actively defining their goals and vision of their lives. And that is exactly what you can find here.

My mission is to help you redefine your worries and make them steps on the path to achieve your goals! Read more about the blog and me in the about section.

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